Congratulations on completing your first day of the letter writing challenge! How is it going so far?
For our 2nd day, we're writing a love letter. First, consider whom you'd like to write a love letter to:
The goal is closeness. You want to close the gap between you and the person you're writing AND express the yearnings of your heart.
Begin by reminiscing. Share a favorite memory.
Next, express your gratitude. How have they changed you? How have they made your life better?
Get specific about what you love about them and include things that are only known by both of you.
Most importantly, TELL THEM THAT YOU LOVE THEM! This is the time to express fully how you feel and express your commitment to them.
Finally, let the ink and emotions flow. Write until you feel complete.
Would you like to learn more about love letters? You can listen to the podcast episode I did about love letters with some beautiful examples. Be sure to subscribe to the podcast if you haven't already!
With love,
Kay (Kathryn Hastings)
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